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My experience with the art of Tantra Massage

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Photo: Astrid Ubaghs "A genuine Tantra masseur is a true artist. His or her work is to be totally present in the moment and highly aware of the real needs of the one receiving the massage. The aim is to help that person to remove all unseen self-defense mechanisms and mental patterns, allowing the energy of love to shine through every cell of their being, radiating pure inner bliss. Basically, as an artistic expression, such an approach to tantra massage brings us in contact with our inner core, where we discover the shortest path to genuine self-love, which can then radiate in our surroundings."  (description taken from  Tantra Templet ). Not so long ago, I finally found the inspiration to try something I have been considering for a long, long time; a Tantric massage.  For those who never heard of Tantra massage before, it is a heartfelt, sensual and erotic massage, in which you are the only receiver. You are healed and brought back to your Essence through the magic powe...

UNSEEN - a glimpse into my erotic sketchbook

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(PLEASE NOTE: This blog post is about my new, 18+ art project. If you are a minor or offended by expressions of sexuality, don’t read it 😊) Hello world! Instagram Live This September, I was lucky enough to do two Instagram Live Session with the always amazing Ro Aliaga, (@loveandsoul). YAY!!! Afterwards, I felt so inspired by the questions we received from our listeners that I decided to write this blog post. So - a big thanks to everyone who sent us questions!! <3  After going through an emotionally disturbing time in 2020 and 2021, I found myself creating from the core of my being, instead of from a place of trying to impress or please myself or others. Even though it's hard to admit - that was a first!! Subconsciously, I have always in some way been aiming to impress rather than express. I have previously worked to fight the perfectionism that I recognized in myself (and which fucks up creative expression more effectively than anything else). I don’t know how other artists w...

Selfies, expression and Shame

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It has been forever, or at least more than a year, since I wrote my last blog posts. My latest post was about selfies and insecurity, and what do you know? That is where I am picking this blog back up, as well! I think the reason why I didn't blog for so long was that I felt like my words, my ideas, were not needed in a vast pool of fantastic bloggers. What could I possibly add ..? Looking back, I like my previous blog posts, though they were a bit too inspired by other bloggers that I admire. I have a tendency to, when I am fascinated with someone, I often try to become them.  So I tried to express myself the way that they express themselves, which is understandable, but of course: impossible.  Ultimately the only person we can truly express is our old, own selves. And how can that ever be a waste of time? Nobody else has done it before, because nobody else can. It's very cliché, of course, but clichés exist for a reason. It's too bad that we hear them so often we forge...